When people think of mail order brides they tend to think of Asia first. Despite the vast numbers of Russian girls and Latina brides looking for American husbands, many men still start their search for a foreign bride in Asia.
So if Asian girls are still popular, then what of the dating sites on which you can meet them? Here’s a look at some of the better Asian dating websites.
By the way, I am looking for my own Asian bride, and some dating sites have ripped me off in the past. So this list will include absolutely no rip off scam sites!
I can’t guarantee that any of these sites are scammer free. It’s beyond the capabilities of any site to offer scam free dating for $30 a month or less. If you’re terrified about romance scammers then just remember not to send money to anyone. And if you haven’t seen a girl on a webcam then I’m sorry but you need to ask yourself whether they actually exist. Don’t fall in love with a photo of someone!
For what it’s worth I’ve been contacted by scammers on some of these sites, but in time you do get to recognise the scammers. Just disable any chat facilities so you don’t get bothered by random women. Choose a location you want to find an Asian bride from and don’t chat to women from other locations. And don’t chat to young girls if you’re old enough to be their father!
You can’t really go far looking for an Asian wife without coming across a Cupid Media run site. This Australian company runs some of the biggest Asian dating websites online.
Their stable of Asian dating sites includes:
- Filipino Cupid (formerly known as Filipina Heart)
- Chinese Love Links
- Thai Love Links
- Singapore Love Links
- Hong Kong Cupid
- Vietnam Cupid
- Japan Cupid
- Korean Cupid
I’ve been a Platinum member of both Japan Cupid and Chinese Love Links. Japan Cupid was a disappointment to me. I kept logging into the site but I very rarely got any emails from Japanese ladies. Yeah, finding a Japanese wife is hard work indeed.
By contrast Chinese Love Links has been much more successful for me. Become a Gold or Platinum member here and you’ll get a lot of emails!
I got around 3-4 emails a day from ladies on Chinese Love Links. If I had signed into the site more often or was less specific about my geographical location then I’d have got even more emails.
Anyway, I met around ten ladies in person whose profiles I’d found on this site. Man, were the ladies high quality! Each spoke good English, and had great figures. If Chinese women are all like this then I’d say that the American wife is in danger of becoming obsolete.
By the way I should add that these sites are quite reasonable in terms of their membership fees. I paid something like $165 for an annual membership of Japan Cupid, and the same for Chinese Love Links. On the downside you have to pay for each site separately.
Lesson learned, and if you’re not totally sure which country you want an Asian wife or girlfriend from then maybe it’s best to sign up to AsianDating.com. However, if you want to find a bride from Japan or Korea then you’ll be better off with Japan Cupid or Korean Cupid, respectively.
China Love Match/Asia Love Match
These are smaller sites than the Cupid empire. China Love Match has impressed me in terms of the quality of lady. I’ve only met China Love Match female member in real life but my goodness she impressed me with her intelligence, standard of English and her lovely legs!
Asia Love Match doesn’t have so many members yet. However, the site is cheap so it could be a budget alternative to AsianDating.com.
Other Asian Dating Sites
I was a member of Cherry Blossoms for a while. This site offers some of the lowest membership fees around. It also has women from a wide range of countries including Thailand, China, Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia, Malaysia and Indonesia. I did have a few browser problems with this site, so that kind of put me off. Still, it’s another viable alternative to AsianDating.com.
Chnlove, ChineseWomenDate, LoveMe, ForeignLadies, AsianBeauties, Thai Matches and iDateAsia have some decent ladies on them. However, these sites are EXPENSIVE. It’s best to avoid the letter writing sites unless you have plenty of cash and want an older Asian bride who doesn’t speak any English.
Asian Kisses and its sister sites Thai Kisses, Filipino Kisses, Chinese Kisses and Ladyboy Kisses are worth a look. However, you’ll find a better selection of ladies on the Cupid sites. One exception is that the Kisses sites are great for ladyboys (if they’re your cup of tea).
Thai Love Lines is an alternative to Thai Love Links. Be aware that both sites have quite similar sounding names!
Free Asian Dating
There are quite a few free Asian dating sites. The problem is that the smaller sites don’t generally have enough members, and they’re also often overrun with scammers.
DateInAsia is worth a look. There are vast numbers of members on this site. However, the search is clunky and the quality of members is often low.
By low standard I mean there are scammers, women who aren’t serious about finding a husband and of course hookers galore. For what it’s worth I’ve made three trips to China now and I’ve never found anyone on DateInAsia worth meeting in real life.
I’ll also mention Asian Love Connections – this is a new site but it has some nice features, especially for anti-scam protection. Check it out!
So that’s a quick look at some of the Asian dating sites on offer. For a comprehensive overview of each of the major Asian dating websites, visit the Asian Dating Sites Guide!
What’s your favorite Asian dating website? Have you had any problems with scammers? Leave your comments below.