Which Asian Dating Websites Are Best to Use

When people think of mail order brides they tend to think of Asia first. Despite the vast numbers of Russian girls and Latina brides looking for American husbands, many men still start their search for a foreign bride in Asia.

So if Asian girls are still popular, then what of the dating sites on which you can meet them? Here’s a look at some of the better Asian dating websites.

By the way, I am looking for my own Asian bride, and some dating sites have ripped me off in the past. So this list will include absolutely no rip off scam sites!

I can’t guarantee that any of these sites are scammer free. It’s beyond the capabilities of any site to offer scam free dating for $30 a month or less. If you’re terrified about romance scammers then just remember not to send money to anyone. And if you haven’t seen a girl on a webcam then I’m sorry but you need to ask yourself whether they actually exist. Don’t fall in love with a photo of someone!

For what it’s worth I’ve been contacted by scammers on some of these sites, but in time you do get to recognise the scammers. Just disable any chat facilities so you don’t get bothered by random women. Choose a location you want to find an Asian bride from and don’t chat to women from other locations. And don’t chat to young girls if you’re old enough to be their father!

Cupid Dating

Want to find a Japanese wife? Japan Cupid is worth a look, but you'll need to put in a lot of effort chatting to the ladies on the site
Want to find a Japanese wife? Japan Cupid is worth a look, but you'll need to put in a lot of effort chatting to the ladies on the site

You can’t really go far looking for an Asian wife without coming across a Cupid Media run site. This Australian company runs some of the biggest Asian dating websites online.

Their stable of Asian dating sites includes:

  • AsianDating.com
  • Filipino Cupid (formerly known as Filipina Heart)
  • Chinese Love Links
  • Thai Love Links
  • Singapore Love Links
  • Hong Kong Cupid
  • Vietnam Cupid
  • Japan Cupid
  • Korean Cupid

I’ve been a Platinum member of both Japan Cupid and Chinese Love Links. Japan Cupid was a disappointment to me. I kept logging into the site but I very rarely got any emails from Japanese ladies. Yeah, finding a Japanese wife is hard work indeed.

By contrast Chinese Love Links has been much more successful for me. Become a Gold or Platinum member here and you’ll get a lot of emails!

I got around 3-4 emails a day from ladies on Chinese Love Links. If I had signed into the site more often or was less specific about my geographical location then I’d have got even more emails.

Anyway, I met around ten ladies in person whose profiles I’d found on this site. Man, were the ladies high quality! Each spoke good English, and had great figures. If Chinese women are all like this then I’d say that the American wife is in danger of becoming obsolete.

By the way I should add that these sites are quite reasonable in terms of their membership fees. I paid something like $165 for an annual membership of Japan Cupid, and the same for Chinese Love Links. On the downside you have to pay for each site separately.

Lesson learned, and if you’re not totally sure which country you want an Asian wife or girlfriend from then maybe it’s best to sign up to AsianDating.com. However, if you want to find a bride from Japan or Korea then you’ll be better off with Japan Cupid or Korean Cupid, respectively.

China Love Match/Asia Love Match

These are smaller sites than the Cupid empire. China Love Match has impressed me in terms of the quality of lady. I’ve only met China Love Match female member in real life but my goodness she impressed me with her intelligence, standard of English and her lovely legs!

Asia Love Match doesn’t have so many members yet. However, the site is cheap so it could be a budget alternative to AsianDating.com.

Other Asian Dating Sites

Want to meet Asian ladyboys? Check out the Kisses range of Asian chat sites for an affordable way to meet cute ladyboys
Want to meet Asian ladyboys? Check out the Kisses range of Asian chat sites for an affordable way to meet cute ladyboys

I was a member of Cherry Blossoms for a while. This site offers some of the lowest membership fees around. It also has women from a wide range of countries including Thailand, China, Philippines, Vietnam, Cambodia, Malaysia and Indonesia. I did have a few browser problems with this site, so that kind of put me off. Still, it’s another viable alternative to AsianDating.com.

Chnlove, ChineseWomenDate, LoveMe, ForeignLadies, AsianBeauties, Thai Matches and iDateAsia have some decent ladies on them. However, these sites are EXPENSIVE. It’s best to avoid the letter writing sites unless you have plenty of cash and want an older Asian bride who doesn’t speak any English.

Asian Kisses and its sister sites Thai Kisses, Filipino Kisses, Chinese Kisses and Ladyboy Kisses are worth a look. However, you’ll find a better selection of ladies on the Cupid sites. One exception is that the Kisses sites are great for ladyboys (if they’re your cup of tea).

Thai Love Lines is an alternative to Thai Love Links. Be aware that both sites have quite similar sounding names!

Free Asian Dating

DateInAsia can be a good place to meet Chinese women, but be careful who you chat to
DateInAsia can be a good place to meet Chinese women, but be careful who you chat to

There are quite a few free Asian dating sites. The problem is that the smaller sites don’t generally have enough members, and they’re also often overrun with scammers.

DateInAsia is worth a look. There are vast numbers of members on this site. However, the search is clunky and the quality of members is often low.

By low standard I mean there are scammers, women who aren’t serious about finding a husband and of course hookers galore. For what it’s worth I’ve made three trips to China now and I’ve never found anyone on DateInAsia worth meeting in real life.

I’ll also mention Asian Love Connections – this is a new site but it has some nice features, especially for anti-scam protection. Check it out!

So that’s a quick look at some of the Asian dating sites on offer. For a comprehensive overview of each of the major Asian dating websites, visit the Asian Dating Sites Guide!

What’s your favorite Asian dating website? Have you had any problems with scammers? Leave your comments below.

One thought on “Which Asian Dating Websites Are Best to Use

  • July 13, 2012 at 4:51 pm

    This AsianBeauties.com website requires that you purchase expensive credits. You must pay 10 credits to open/read every letter, and pay 10 credits to respond to every letter. 10 credits = about $5.00.

    If you continue correspondence with female members, you continue paying $5 for every read/respond letter. ($5+$5=$10) You never stop paying the Russians who operate this website.

    When Asian female sends letter with extra pictures attached, AB website permits you look at 1st pic free, then PAY 10 credits to open/view each additional picture.

    If you try to insert your direct email, or personal address into your letter, the AB website has computer software which censors/blocks personal information. AB does not want you to exchange email/phone/address with the female members, because you are not allowed to communicate with the girls off the AB website.

    When you ask for their personal email/address/phone, the girls will not
    provide it, and you will be told excuses, that they wish to communicate with you only on AB, where you keep paying credits to the Russian administrators.

    In addition, the local Chinese translators may very well not provide/transfer your
    personal data/information to the girl when they do English–Chinese translation so the female may read your comments.

    On the video/chat box online, you must pay 1 credit per minute just to send
    a text message with no cam. Or, you pay 2 credits per minute to see girl on cam. Credits cost between 40 to 80 cents determined by how many you buy in bulk in one transaction. One hour = 60 minutes X 40/80 cents = $24 to $48 per hour for text box, or $48 to $96 per hour for girl on web cam.

    Online, you type message, PAY, transmit message, PAY, girl reads message, PAY, girl thinks response, PAY, girl types, PAY, girl transmits, PAY, you receive/read, PAY, and keep on.PAYING every minute. You burn through your bank account, and Russian administrators go to luxurious nightclub and eat caviar/drink vodka thanks to you!

    On scam report websites, some former AB male members report spending $$$ hundreds, even $3,000 worth of credits, and never making progress with these female members toward a serious relationship.

    On Asian Beauties, my personal profile received several hundred letters from pretty Chinese females. I couldn’t open/read them, because AB would charge thousands of dollars to do it, and thousands of dollars to respond to these nice women.

    Two Chinese women claimed to have wealthy daddies, to be affluent, and offered to come to USA, buy me a house/car if I’d be their husband!! Wow!, I was getting ready to write them a letter of interest, inviting them to make the trip here. And I reviewed the profile of a stunning Chinese girl who said she was here in Los Angeles. We exchanged 1 letter.

    Then I noticed that I stopped receiving email from AB website, or notifications of new letters. I tried to log in, and was rejected. Tried to call their Customer Support with difficulty, sometimes on hold for 1 hour. Then I talked with Christina, Customer Support Manager in Russia. She was unable to provide explanation for why Ruslan, the ‘Risk Manager,’ deleted my account. I wanted to talk to
    Ruslan over telephone, but he was never available, and didn’t telephone me later even though Christina promised he would.

    Instead, Ruslan transmitted multiple emails asking me to photocopy both
    sides of my credit card, the back/front, and photocopy my personal ID, which
    could mean passport or state ID, and send both to him via email or fax to prove who I was!

    What? Does this sound like an attempt to rip off my Identity, and tap my
    Credit Card until wiped out? Bank of America Customer Care and I both thought it did, and I certainly wasn’t foolish enough to comply with Ruslan’s request.

    Now that Ruslan deleted my membership, I’ll never find out if those Chinese girls were serious, or bluffing, about buying me a new house!! And Ruslan/Christina never explained why I was dropped. My suspicion is that I wasn’t spending enough money, not responding to the hundreds of letters. Some AB girls were writing me eight or nine letters trying to prompt a response from me.

    So maybe AB drops male members who are reluctant to blow big $$$, and
    spend just a small amount and are highly selective in answering the females.
    I just don’t know, but I really wanted one of those rich Chinese girls to buy me
    a Beverly Hills mansion, and now I have to keep living in my tiny apartment instead!!

    Sincerely, JOE Duffy
    Los Angeles, California


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