The Asian women I’ve met through marriage agencies and dating sites have been some of the most wondrous women I have ever met in my life. But why should single men have all the fun? How about gay women? Is it possible to find lesbian mail order brides for same-sex marriages?
Breaking News… Lesbian Women Are Everywhere!
Well here’s some good news if you’re a lesbian woman – it’s not too difficult to find lesbian women in any country on the planet. So whether you’re interested in Latin American, Russian or Asian women, you’ll be able to find your dream lesbian mail order bride.
One problem though is that not all countries have the kind of openness that allows gay men and women to be open about their sexuality. I’ve heard plenty of stories of Asian lesbians actually marrying men and becoming mail order brides, simply because of the cultural traditions in their own country. In fact gay men also have a hard time in Asia. Many Asian gay men will marry women and even go onto raise families. But it doesn’t alter the fact that they’re still gay.
Where to Find Mail Order Lesbian Brides
There are quite a number of mail order brides themed websites. In general they’re packed full of Russian, Asian or Latin women, and are designed to appeal to men seeking foreign brides. These sites cater solely for Western men seeking foreign brides. So it’s not worth bothering with sites such as Chnlove or Asian Beauties.
So I’ve done a bit of an investigation to try and uncover the best dating sites for finding a lesbian partner.
I’ve discounted the flirting, adult dating and short term relationship sites. These aren’t generally good places to find long term life partners. So I’ve focussed on sites where the women are more interested in forming marriages and civil partnerships.
Asian Lesbian Brides
I’ll start with Asia. Asian women are fantastic, and I think more lesbian women should consider finding a partner from Asia. Heterosexual men know that Asian women can make loving and devoted brides. And the misconception that Asian women are shy and submissive is wide of the mark. Chinese women often wear the trousers in a relationship – especially those from the North and East of China.
There are a wide range of Asian dating sites where it could be possible to find lesbian women. The Kisses dating sites are quite good for finding a wider range of partnership types. They’re German based sites and a bit more open to the possibility of other types of relationship. For example, they’re the only major Asian dating websites where it’s possible to search for a man, woman or ladyboy.
On Asian Kisses I found 497 women who claimed to be seeking women for relationships. How many of these are actual lesbians is hard to tell though. To be honest I don’t like this site anymore – it got redesigned and the new design makes it very hard to use.
DateInAsia is another site that’s good for seeking partners for non-standard heterosexual relationships. Sadly the search engine on this site is very basic, and the site has no concept of a woman wanting to search for another woman. This site is free though, and if you’re willing to spend a few hours searching on the site then you can find some interesting members.
The Cupid dating sites are popular with men seeking Asian mail order brides. AsianDating.com is one of their most popular sites. So I searched for women seeking women on the site, and it didn’t seem to show many lesbian women. Maybe you need to register as a woman first. The site has free membership, but you need to pay if you want to contact the other free members on the site (most of whom are the Asian women). There are definitely gay men on Asian Dating though, so there should be lesbian women as well.
If you know which country you want to find a partner from then Cupid Media also run a whole load of other Asian dating sites. Chinese Love Links, Thai Love Links and Filipino Cupid are three of the most popular.
So Asian lesbians do exist, but they’re not particularly easy to find.
One problem is that same sex relationships are still kind of taboo throughout Asia. For example, I once studied at a well known and fairly prestigious university in China. Two of their female students came out as being openly lesbian. The university didn’t want the bad publicity so they stopped the girls from graduating. So sad!
Russian and Latin Lesbian Brides
The majority of Russian dating sites are aimed at American and Canadian men seeking Russian mail order brides. Sites like Elena’s Models have no facility where you can specify that you’re a woman seeking a woman.
I didn’t have much luck finding Latin lesbian mail order brides either. Latin Euro is a great Latin dating site if you’re a man. But strangely if you use the advanced search facility to specify that you’re a woman seeking a woman, then you get shown some very attractive busty Latinas, but they’re most definitely seeking men. Of course they might really be lesbian and just seeking a man for a green card, but that’s just one of the many hazards a man seeking a foreign bride will face.
To be honest the mainstream mail order brides sites seem like a bit of a dead loss for finding lesbian women. A better option might be to head for a lesbian niche dating site like Pink Cupid or PlanetSappho. Use a site with a large member base and you’re sure to find a woman of an ethnicity you find appealing. Pink Cupid is great because you can search on nationality and race.
One word of warning with foreign dating though. There are many scammers on dating sites, and scammers can be both male and female. So if you are looking for love overseas, then make sure you’re as well read up about romance scams as men seeking foreign brides are. Women are particularly vulnerable to scammers, since women tend to fall quite easily for the sad stories that scammers often make up in order to tug at your heart strings.
Women and Ladyboy Girlfriends
Ladyboy dating is certainly getting pretty popular these days. There are even transgender niche sites where you can look for a trans partner on. Two of the best are MyLadyboyDate and MyTransSexualDate. So I wonder if many women are interested in transsexual dating experiences?
I know that some girls have a thing for transgenders. A few years ago I was living in Thailand and I happened to chat to this Thai girl on a dating site there. Well it turns out she was interested in ladyboys. I never heard of that before.
Why would you want to date a transgender man? Well while I was living in Thailand I found ladyboys to be on the whole very smart. They were smarter than the average guys I met, and way smarter than biological women. So if you value intelligence in a partner, then transgenders are certainly worth a look.
By the way, if you do find a good lesbian dating site with plenty of nice foreign women, then leave your hot tip in the comments section below…