I’m writing this on International Women’s Day. I’d sure like to know when it’s going to be International Man’s Day!
The good news is that if you’re an older guy yourself then every day can be International Man’s day!!!
I turned 40 the other week. I guess 40 isn’t considered particularly that old these days. But I’m becoming aware that the older I get, the easier it is to find women to date.
Easiest of all are mature ladies. Single older guys are a rare commodity in the World. This is especially true in countries like Russia, where so many men drink themselves to death at an early age. And in developing countries like China and Thailand the local men often die young thanks to a combination of fast living, unsafe roads and hideous industrial accidents.
So if you’re in your 50’s, 60’s, 70’s or even 80’s then you’ll have plenty of chances of finding a mature lady for romance and marriage.
How Old is a Good Mature Lady?
So how old is a mature lady, and if you want to date an older foreign woman, then what age is best?
I guess we could define older women as those past the age where they want to start a family. For most women this is around 35. Of course women can conceive up to and around the age of 45. But this is fairly risky for both mother and her unborn child, so it’s not recommended.
Look – if you want babies, then find a Filipino or Thai girl who isn’t too fussy about a large age difference in a relationship. But if you’re not fussed about having kids, then mature women are often a better choice of woman.
The Best Countries for Mature Ladies
If you’re interested in foreign ladies, then countries having a history of Western men seeking mail order brides from them include:
- Costa Rica
- Dominican Republic
I’m like a lot of guys in that I adore all nationalities and races of women. But you’ll no doubt have your own preferences.
Mature Russian or Ukrainian women often make great older brides for Western men. There’s such a shortage of decent older guys in these countries that women from these countries have no option but to sign up to the many Russian mail order bride themed websites. Don’t ever call them mail order brides to their face though! These women are for the most part intelligent, educated and often speak very good English.
I guess what puts me off Eastern European women personally is that they’re not that much different from the women in my own country (the UK). Like so many guys I like exotic women. And if you want a mature lady who is a bit different, then Latin America or Asia are the best choices.
Oh, and I’ve almost forgotten to mention Africa. Africa can be a great place to find an exotic mature lady. Black ladies do tend to age quite well, and they’re often sexy as hell. I hestitate to recommend Africa as a place to find a foreign bride though. African romance scammers are now so numerous on dating sites that it’s become a joke. While there are sincere Africans on dating sites, I’d recommend you use networking to find an African partner rather than chat to strangers.
But back to Asia and Latin America…
Central and South American women make great wives, and it’s not so far to travel to meet them if you’re a USA guy. The curse of this region is the Spanish genes which make so many Latin women gain weight later in life. Of course if you like curvy women then this might be what attracts you to this region in the first place.
Popular countries for finding brides from include the Dominican Republic, Costa Rica, Colombia, Peru and of course Brazil. I’ve heard that Colombian women age the best, but if you use a chat site like Latin American Cupid or Latin Euro then you can make up your own mind from the tens of thousands of profiles on these sites.
Asia is the traditional home of the mail order bride. My current girlfriend is from China, so I have no hesitation in recommending Chinese women. Chinese ladies age very well indeed, and it’s not unusual to see 55 year old Chinese women who look 45. I’ve seen photos of many of my potential mother in laws, and I gotta say that sometimes they were hotter than their daughters!
Thai and Philippines women are another option. Thailand is generally easier to visit than China is, being more touristy and also very accepting to the idea of foreigners marrying the local women. Asian dating websites are awash with Filipinas seeking foreign men. You’ll generally find that the mature ladies are more sincere, but with so many 19 year old girls on these sites it can be hard to keep focus on the older women.
So there are a few options for meeting mature ladies. All you need to do is sign up to one of the many international relationships sites, shortlist some ladies you like, then book a flight and go visit them! I’ve done this several times now and I pity the man who is restricted to dating women in his own town.
Which country has the hottest mature ladies? Are older Chinese women the hottest on the planet? Leave your comments below.